It is a privilege to write about the quintessential woman who has given me life, literally.

Bobbie Jean is a conqueror of multitudes; she is a business owner, leader, pilot, entrepreneur, community service advocate, graduate student, daughter, sister, cousin, motivator, cherished friend, and heir of the most high God. Additionally, me and Joseph Robert Harth have been blessed with the honor of having her has our mother.

One of my favorite memories from my early childhood was when she was teaching me how to spell words and there was one word that she had me constantly practice:

“Danielle, how do you spell excellence?”
“E-X-C-E-L-L-E-N-C-E”

Bobbie Jean is the essence of excellence, and excellence is what she always models in any place, with any interaction, and whatever work that she does. Because of who she is, I have always had a great role model in my life.

She continues to amaze me daily with her innovate ideas, compassion for every person, elegant style, honorable morals, impregnable perseverance and emotional strength, modesty, and incessant support.

Bobbie Jean has managed to blow my mind with revealing another one of her abilities from her Pandora’s box of excellence, that she is a poet! Read this great poem of affirmation composed by Bobbie Jean, the quintessential woman of excellence.

In my Basic Skills in Adlerian Psychology course, my class was asked to compile all of the artwork that we created individually during class this Spring 2014 semester, and then use the images to inspire a Lifestyle Self Assessment.

While the instructor played soft music in the background, we were encouraged to start thinking of how we would analyze our lives using diving board phrases such as:

• I am...
• In my family I am/I was the...
• I found my place/made my place by...
• I decided...
• The values in my family emphasized...

I selected "I am" and started using objects within my collage of images to stimulate the discussion of how I would assess myself. All of the images were made with the purpose of representing my feelings, interactions, and how I perceived my environment in that moment. So I looked at the images and sought consistent symbols that revealed something about myself.

This is what I wrote within the 3 minutes that I had in class:

"I am in a disguise through hats, shadows, and silhouettes. My hands are open and reaching towards the right direction, because this is where I should be. There are elements of time and movement, because these things wait for no one, time is always constant and movement is a constant progression. If I were to hop off this moving train of life then I would miss the opportunity. So, I will not lose focus and I will not remove my gaze. Others cannot see where I am looking, but I know, which creates the areas of misunderstanding because they do not know. It may appear selfish at times but this is a time for investment so that my crop will be overflowing in harvest season so that I have plenty to provide for others who depend on me."

The following are the images within the collage of this semester's drawings that I used to inspire the previous passage:

#Hats

#Shadows #Silhouettes

#OpenHands #RightDirection #WhereIShouldBe

#Time #TrainOfLife

#Movement

#Gaze

I certainly encourage anyone to engage in this activity and see what they come up with for their own Lifestyle Self Assessment. I will be writing a more extensive self assessment for the course, but this was a fun way to start.

We were also asked to take one of the drawings and create a changed version of it. I went back to my horse drawing that was based on a horse in my dream, I will call the horse David.

David is now more radiant, physically stronger, wiser, more masculine, and his gaze has shifted direction....I will reveal in more detail at a later time. So make sure you continue checking the blog!